e’s Just Not That into You is a 2009 romantic comedy-drama film directed by Ken Kwapis, based on Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo‘s 2004 self-help book. It follows nine people and their varying romantic problems. Gigi, a common thread amongst the characters, is followed more closely than the other eight and has a more developed storyline as she consistently misreads all of her romantic partners’ behaviors. She meets Alex, who helps her to interpret signs given to her by her dates.

The film stars an ensemble cast of Ben Affleck, Jennifer Aniston, Drew Barrymore, Jennifer Connelly, Kevin Connolly, Bradley Cooper, Ginnifer Goodwin, Scarlett Johansson, and Justin Long. The film was produced by New Line Cinema and Flower Films, the production company owned by Barrymore, who is also the film’s executive producer.

Production began in Baltimore in 2007. The film was released on February 6, 2009, by Warner Bros. Pictures to mixed reviews. It grossed $27.7 million on its opening weekend and over $178.8 million worldwide.

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Gigi, Conor and Alex

In Baltimore, Gigi repeatedly misreads her dates’ romantic interest.

Following a tepid date with real estate agent Conor Barry, Gigi is befriended by bar owner Alex, who suggests she misinterprets romantic signals. As their friendship continues, she interprets his helpfulness as a sign he is attracted to her. Alex rebuffs Gigi, chastising her for ignoring his advice.

As Gigi moves on from Alex, he realizes he is in love with her. After leaving several unanswered messages, he arrives at Gigi’s apartment after her return from a date, declares his love and they end up kissing.

Janine, Ben, and Anna

Gigi’s co-worker, Janine Gunders, obsesses over her home renovations while her husband, Ben, becomes attracted to yoga instructor and aspiring singer Anna Marks. They pursue a flirtatious friendship supposedly while he helps her establish a singing career. Ben reveals he only married Janine after she delivered an ultimatum, either marry or break up. He agrees to only be friends with Anna, but she continues pressing until they sleep together.

Finding cigarette butts hidden in the backyard, Janine accuses Ben of smoking again, citing her father’s death from lung cancer for her anger. He blames the workmen at their house. During a tense home improvement shopping trip, Ben confesses his infidelity. Devastated, Janine blames herself and wants to save their marriage; Ben seems less enthusiastic.

Later, Anna and Ben begin having sex in his office, and he strips her to her lingerie. They are interrupted by Janine, who arrives hoping to spice up their marriage. Forced to hide in a closet and listen as Ben and Janine have sex, Anna afterward leaves in disgust, ending their affair.

As Janine tidies up Ben’s clothes at home, she discovers a pack of cigarettes and explodes in anger. When he returns, she is gone, leaving his clothes folded on the staircase with a carton of cigarettes and a note asking for a divorce. Janine moves into an apartment to restart her life, and Anna is seen performing at an upscale nightclub. Alone, Ben buys beer at the same supermarket where he met Anna.

Conor, Anna, and Mary

Anna enjoys a close friendship with Alex’s friend, Conor. Though she wants a casual relationship, he misinterprets her playful affection as something more.

Anna’s friend, Mary Harris, works in advertising sales for a local gay newspaper and helps Conor promote his real estate business. Like Gigi, she meets many men, mostly online, but despite constantly monitoring her emails, pager, phone, and MySpace messages, her dates go nowhere.

While Conor attempts to cultivate a gay clientele, to explain how he is going wrong with Anna. Taking their advice, he declares his love to her. Feeling vulnerable after what happened with Ben, Anna agrees to a more serious relationship. When Conor later proposes buying a house and moving in together, she admits she is uninterested, so they return to being just friends.

Mary later runs into Conor, recognizing him from his ad photo, having only spoken to him over the phone. They hit it off, and start dating.

Beth and Neil

Gigi’s co-worker Beth Murphy lives with her boyfriend Neil, a friend of Ben’s. After seven years together, Beth wants to get married, but Neil opposes marriage. Gigi announces she will no longer misinterpret vague gestures and comments, and says that men who delay marrying likely never will. Beth confronts Neil, who insists he will never marry, so she ends it.

Preparations for Beth’s younger sister’s wedding reopen the issue after Beth hears multiple backhanded comments from family members. During the reception, her father Ken suffers a heart attack. Beth cares for him as he recuperates at home while her sisters wallow and their husbands binge watch television, constantly ordering takeout while not helping at all.

Beth’s patience wanes as the household grows more dysfunctional and the chores pile up. However, just when she is about to snap, she is shocked to find Neil, who learned of her father’s heart attack and rushed over, finishing the dishes in a now clean kitchen, doing the laundry, and restocking the fridge. They reconcile, with Beth assuring Neil she wants him back without being married. Neil later proposes, and they wed aboard his sailboat.